The Double Date in Colombia
John Doe Dating An unusual encounter in Colombia has stayed with me. I had arranged a date with a 40-year-old woman, but just before we were supposed to meet in a park, she…
Latin America
Men’s behavior on Tinder – First WhattsApp Xting
A Mexican friend recently told me a strange story: After briefly matching on Tinder, a man sent her an unsolicited photo of hime nude as his very first message on…
Tinder in the Dominican Republic
Completely unprepared for what a mix of proximity to the US, poverty, and Caribbean openness can create in a country, I traveled to the Dominican Republic. I only later found…
Acapulco, Mexico – Ignorance Leads to Strange Encounters
This blog is mostly about not very nice experiences with online dating. In Acapulco, I quickly arranged a date with a 30-year-old woman who also dressed very sensually on Instagram.…
Dominican Republic – Online Dating, 4th Attempt
Tinder in Punta Cana After realizing that sex in the Dominican Republic is mostly a matter of price—and after being offered taxis, drugs, or prostitutes at least seventy times in…
Men’s behavior on Tinder – insults
A very nice online dating acquaintance from Brazil, whom I stayed in touch with for years, told me about her negative experiences: After she showed no interest, a man insulted…